When I began to struggle with extra pounds, I had to confront the fact that my fondness for the comfort zone was in direct opposition with achieving weight loss. Despite my best efforts to find shortcuts and avoid the work,…
Blog Archives
An Experimental Mindset
Mindsets are a set of beliefs that guide behaviors. Sometimes our default mindsets are not helpful, and it can be a good choice to adopt a different one. Scientists use the scientific method to observe, make a hypothesis, and test…
Posted in personal development
Behavioral Economics and Weight Loss
Behavior change is hard, as anyone who has ever tried to create a new habit knows. The field of Behavioral Economics shows that we often fail to make rational choices. Below are a few human tendencies to be aware of:…
Tagged with: behavioral economics, cognitive biases, habits, weight loss
Posted in personal development
Posted in personal development
12 Communication Skills
Verbal communication is like playing ping pong while juggling and jumping on a trampoline. There is far more going on than just bouncing back and forth between a speaker and listener! A speaker must choose words and transmit them with…
Tagged with: active-listening, communication, communication-skills, relationships
Posted in communication, personal development, work skills
Posted in communication, personal development, work skills
Meaningful Conversations
Have you ever wished for more meaningful conversations that develop deeper relationships? Our connections with others improve our happiness and combat loneliness. Conversation is a special communication skill to practice. The best communicators are present, observant, and provide feedback to…
Posted in Ideas That Work, personal development
Six Rs of Resilience
Mastering the skills of resilience helps us to navigate when the waters of life become choppy and we may begin to doubt our abilities to handle the challenges. Six Rs of Resilience: • Reflect: recognize feelings, thoughts and actions •…
Tagged with: mental-health, mindfulness, personal-growth, resilience, self-improvement
Posted in personal development
Posted in personal development
Anti-Loneliness Actions for 12 Connections
Loneliness is an epidemic, and it has devastating effects. An article at Forbes called “The Neuroscience of Loneliness” provides twelve ways to combat loneliness from the book “Connect: 12 Vital Ties That Open Your Heart, Lengthen Your Life, and Deepen…
Tagged with: loneliness, mental-health, relationships
Posted in love & relationships, personal development
Posted in love & relationships, personal development
Great Reads
Some books I have read have been life changing. If you are interested in learning and personal growth, here is a starter kit for fabulous non-fiction books and films by the authors. A spreadsheet at the TED Talk Book Discussion…
Purpose Planning
Unlocking purpose is one of the most important and complex puzzles we can undertake. Creating a roadmap that includes the elements of a strategy for a clear purpose are VIP AIMS [Mission – Vision – Values – Goals] provides direction…
Posted in personal development
A Path to Being Authentic
“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” Mahatma Gandhi To be authentic is to be your real self, to speak your truth, and to follow your values. When you are authentic,…
Posted in personal development
Daily PlanIt 