Social – Activity: Develop Your Self-Esteem

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Strong self-esteem is the foundation of good relationships, including your relationship with yourself! The good news is that many of the activities of a Year of Personal Growth help to develop self-esteem!
MIND
- Set and accomplish realistic goals
- List your strengths in a SWOT analysis
- Create a vision board and visualize success (see also How to Build Self-Esteem)
- Keep a success file and remind yourself of your achievements
- Reward yourself for accomplishments
- Focus on personal development
HEART
- Develop supportive relationships
- Set boundaries
- Know what you control
- Know your rights and responsibilities
- Accept responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and actions
- Be involved in activities in the community
- Be aware of feelings and express them responsibly
- Realize if you are here, you are loved
BODY
- Improve your posture and practice power poses to stand tall
- Practice self-care activities
- Learn how to handle stress with deep breathing and other coping skills
- Plan fun and relaxing activities for yourself
SOUL
- Act as if you are self-confident
- Uplift yourself with kindness and positive self-talk
- Meet your healthy needs
- Forgive yourself when you make a mistake
- Ask for help when you need it
Book: “The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem” by Nathaniel Brandon
Practice THE SIX PILLARS OF SELF-ESTEEM
1. The Practice of Living Consciously
2. The Practice of Self-Acceptance
3. The Practice of Self-Responsibility
4. The Practice of Self-Assertiveness
5. The Practice of Living Purposefully
6. The Practice of Personal Integrity
TOOLS
- Watch Amy Cuddy TED Talk on body language
- Listen to Guided Meditation by Tara Brach
- Listen to audio “Whispers of Love” words by don Miguel Ruiz, author of the Four Agreements
- Listen to audio Unhelpful Thinking
This is one of the weekly activities for a Year of Personal Development.
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