Daily Routine Checklist With Prayers and Quotes for the Day

We all need a schedule that fits our unique life: everyone has their own preferences and tasks to perform. Some prefer to exercise, shower or bathe in the morning, others in the evening. Checklists can help us remember everything that needs to be done. I recently powered up my daily routine with some favorite prayers and quotes for inspiration, various exercises scattered throughout the day, and music that fits that part of my day. Finding ways to add gratitude, meditation, and deep breathing on a daily basis helps to manage stress and increase happiness. I keep a copy in Google Drive so I can easily review it. These are some of my favorite prayers and quotes (pdf) for a daily routine checklist (pdf)

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Wake Up!

Positive quotes:

  • “Every day is a gift, that’s why they call it the present.”
  • “What we are is God’s gift to us, What we become is our gift to God.” -Eleanor Powell
  • A grateful heart a garden is…plant seeds of gratitude, kindness & inspiration today.

Affirmations: “I will choose a positive attitude and thinking today. I will choose a growth mindset, and view problems as challenges. I will bravely be my authentic self and stretch beyond my comfort zone. I will project both strength and warmth. I will listen with attention and communicate with care. I will use my talents for a meaningful purpose. I will create meaningful memories with those I care about.

My morning prayer: “Thank You, God, for the opportunities of this new day. Grant me kindness and compassion for others, patience when dealing with any difficulties, strength to handle problems. Help me to grow and to be my best self.”

Listen to motivational or inspirational music

Morning Light Prayer

“For this new morning with its light, For rest and shelter of the night, For health and food, for love and friends. For everything Thy goodness sends, Thank you, God.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

  • Review value statement and vision board with photos of strengths

Morning

“Do more than belong: participate. Do more than care: help. Do more than believe: practice. Do more than be fair: be kind. Do more than forgive: forget. Do more than dream: work.” -William Arthur Ward

  • Get to work! I find listening to nature sounds or classical music that activates Alpha brain waves really helps me to access flow and maintain focus.
  • Listening to workout music while exercising makes it easier. [30 minutes of aerobic on the elliptical machine is vital to keep me feeling good, and 10:30 am works best for me]

Noon

You are the one [fellow] that has to decide
Whether you’ll do it, or toss it aside.
You are the one [fellow] who makes up your mind,
Whether you’ll try for the goal that’s afar
Or be contented to stay where you are.
Take it or leave it. Here’s something to do!
Just think it over. It’s all up to you.

-Edgar Guest

Afternoon

Be a torch or be a spark.

Be a candle in the dark.

Be a sunbeam or a star.

Be the shining light you are.

Evening

Have You Earned Your Tomorrow by Edgar Guest

 

Is anybody happier because you passed his way? Does anyone remember that you spoke to him today? This day that’s almost over, did you use its moments well or will the angel’s record a tale of trouble tell? Did you waste the day, or save it? Was it well, or poorly spent? Did you leave a trail of kindness, or a scar of discontent? As you close your eyes in slumber, do you hear the angel say, “You have earned one more tomorrow by the way you lived today”?

  • Create meaningful memories with good conversation during a family meal.
  • Lift weights and do posture exercises when watching tv [neck strengthening exercises are crucial to keep me feeling good, and a short simple weight lifting routine with dumbbells is another goal]

My evening prayer: “Thank you, God, for the gift of this day. Thank you for your loving care, and for always being by my side.”

Two prayers and a song I find comforting: What God Hath Promised (see below), a Child’s Evening Hymn, and The Prayer sung by Josh Groban and Charlotte Church.

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See more details about my daily routine, and how to Run Your Day Like an Athlete.

 

 

 

 

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Benefits of 11 Happiness Habits in Infographics

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Learn how to follow the BE MEASURING building blocks of positive shift with resources at the Positive Shift Happens Toolkit. To see the benefits, just click on each of the images below to see the full infographic.

Breathe Deeply

BreatheBenefits

Exercise

ExerciseBenefitsMeditation

MeditationBenefitsEmotional Awareness

EQBenefits

Aspire

ScienceofGoals

Research on goals and happiness @actionforhappiness.org

 

Sharing

SharingBenefits

Uplift

MusicBenefits

Relate

ConnectionBenefits

In Flow

FlowInfographic

Notice

NoticeBenefits

Gratitude

GratitudeBenefits

research on benefits of gratitude at templeton.org

See these infographics and more on my Pinterest Happiness Habits board.

See also Apps for Happiness and Personal Development

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A Time to BE MEASURING

Learn how to follow the BE MEASURING building blocks of positive shift with resources at the Positive Shift Happens Toolkit. See the Benefits of 11 Happiness Habits in Infographics.

I made myself a visual reminder for the BE MEASURING happiness habits:
BeMeasuringPhotosHappiness Habits:

  • Breathe Deeply
  • Exercise
  • Meditate
  • Emotionally Aware
  • Aspire
  • Share
  • Uplift
  • Relate
  • In Flow
  • Notice
  • Gratitude

I printed these photos, cut them out and glued them to tags. I’d like to clip them to a yardstick, but haven’t found one!
BEMEASURINGPHOTOS

Here is a free download of the BE MEASURING happiness habits reminders (pdf)

Happy New Year!

Thinking about this reminds me that in happiness and life, to everything there is a season.

There is a time for doing and a time for being,

A time for thinking and a time for feeling,

A time for working and a time for playing,

A time for introspection and a time for connection,

A time for planning and a time for action,

A time for hanging in and a time for letting go.

Awareness is key to knowing when it is time to shift.

Read more about Apps for Happiness and Personal Development and Happiness Based on Science and Positive Psychology.

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Top 10 Posts of 2014

Here are the top 10 posts of the year at The Daily PlanIt in 2014:

Title
Free Tools
Home page / Archives
Identify Emotions
Apps for Happiness and Personal Development
A paper planner tool for the weekly review
Top Ten Personal Development Sites
The portable gtd mini system
GTD Essentials
Combating Procrastination
Run Your Day Like an Athlete

Interest in the free tools posted here is always high. The identify emotions post is not new, but remains a popular topic, while interest in productivity continues to be high.

Overlap

One thing I’ve learned this year is about the overlap between:

  1. happiness habits,
  2. personal development (of which productivity is a part) and
  3. skills for success.

An overlap in all 3 subjects occurs in the areas of Social, Relationships, and Mental. Many of the top 10 skills employers are looking for are mental, but the top 2 are Communication and Teamwork. Sharing is a key happiness habit in the social area, and communication is important in all relationships.

More overlap occurs in the happiness habits and personal development. Breathing and exercise in the physical area, meditation and gratitude in the spiritual area, and emotional awareness in both. I believe these skills are also helpful for career success.

It’s pretty easy to sell people on the benefits of happiness! When you start with the happiness habits you will also be developing personally and developing work and career skills. Add in more personal development and you will gain still more work and career skills. This overlap indicates that increasing skills in communication, goal setting and productivity provide a high return on investment of time spent on developing them.

Resources from The Daily PlanIt to learn these key skills are:

CommunicationCommunicate Well, and Skills Employers Want: #1 Communication

Goal SettingHow to Set Goals tutorial, the How to Start a Fire free eBook on discovering what you are passionate about,  “On Purpose” course at Udemy, and my “Get Goaling” ebook.

ProductivityTime Management 101 tutorial

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12 Ways to Give

Create a calendar for planning to give on monthly themes.

Sharing and Gratitude are both part of the BE MEASURING building blocks of positive shift. To make your own planned giving calendar, here’s some things to consider:

  1. Decide on the amount you wish to give.
  2. Choose causes that are important to you.
  3. Look them up at www.charitynavigator.org/. You can register to make it easy to give online and keep track of donations for tax purposes.
  4. Think of some simple gifts you can give to thank someone each month.
  5. Start a file for your giving plan, favorite recipes, thank you cards, etc.

Simple gift ideas: a candle, a book, a music CD, wrapped chocolates, flowers, variety pack of tea paired with shortbread or butter cookies, J Skinner cinnamon rolls, muffins, a gift card. See ideas for Appreciation Gifts at the Joy of Giving and Pinterest. Send an e-card from gratefulness.org.

Download a free printable 12 Ways to Give pdf form to create a plan. Below is an example plan.

Ideas? Let us know at the Daily PlanIt Facebook page!

See also a free printable Random Acts of Kindness bookmark for ideas. Discover how to volunteer your talents to an organization that supports a cause that is meaningful to you.

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Apps for Happiness and Personal Development

BE MEASURING with the building blocks of positive shift to add happiness. (see links to resources at the Positive Shift Happens Toolkit) As I reviewed various frameworks for happiness, I realized that the practices that have been shown to increase happiness and well-being can be arranged to spell out BE MEASURING. Ironically, it is not usually important to measure them.

Systems that are simple and easy to use are usually best, and often a printable paper option will fill the bill. While it is important to measure what you want to manage, tracking a whole bunch of things can become tedious. However, if you enjoy using apps, many are gathered here that may be useful. As I’ve thought about ways to add more of these key skills into my life, I realized: 1) a simple checklist is probably pretty effective, 2) many of the keys to happiness are activities for personal development, and 3) it would sure be nice to have all of this incorporated into one Android app.

When I first wrote the Year of Personal Development series my focus was on free printable tools, but now many apps have been created that could be helpful tools to add happiness habits (and personal development) to your routine. I’ve been seeing a lot about the Happify app, which uses a S.T.A.G.E. framework to build five key happiness skills. Action for Happiness has an app as well.

Habit Trackers: I have used Loop Habit Tracker for Android. (Apple people might like Strides for ios.) See more habit tracker options at Make Good Habits Easy, and Bad Habits Hard.

The BE MEASURING building blocks:

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Breathe Deeply (& sleep well)Breathing deeply is a habit with many benefits. It was one of the most helpful things I did during a Year of Personal Development. It is helpful to remember to stretch and take several deep breaths about once every hour. (time: about 5 minutes)

  • Apps: Apps at health.mil for military veterans are available free for anyone. T2 at Google Play. Breath2Relax includes a demonstration, stress rating, and cycles for deep breathing. There is also a very simple instructional app to learn how to breath deeply called the Tactical Breather App. They also have a mood tracker (see below) and some others I’d like to try out like the Virtual Hope Box. GPS for the Soul is an app from the Huffington Post that is now available on Android as well as iOS. The Living Well app is designed for men who have been sexually abused in childhood, which includes breathing and mindfulness meditations. For reminders, I simply use Google Keep. If you have problems with sleeping, White Noise Lite looks good.

Exercise (& eat a healthy diet)-Just a few minutes of exercise a day can release endorphins, but you can gain additional benefits with a longer workout. If you can spend some time outside, that is a mood booster too. See the benefits of exercise infographic from Happify. (time: about 30 minutes)

  • Apps: Myfitnesspal is wonderful for tracking your diet and exercise, although I find it a bit tiresome entering all that information. See also Best Fitness and Exercise Apps at Healthline.
  • Samsung Food is the app I currently use for managing recipes and menu planning. It does take a bit of time and effort. If I need inspiration, I usually just flip through index cards with a picture of the main dishes we mostly have.

Meditate (& relax)-There are many benefits to meditation. (time: about 15 minutes)

  • Apps: Take a Break from Stress with the app from Meditation Oasis. Choose between a 7 minute break and a longer 13 minute option. I sometimes use this app during my noon break. Relax Melodies is great (and fun!) for creating a variety of gentle sounds. See also Best Meditation Apps at Healthline.

Emotional awareness-Empathize with others, and notice your own emotions.

  • Apps: T2health has a  mood tracker which was designed to treat PTSD. You could get a baseline by tracking for a week, then introduce some habits proven to increase happiness to see how your mood is influenced. Benefits of emotional intelligence.

Aspire-Know your purpose and direction, and take action toward meaningful goals. (time: at least 5 minutes a day)

  • Apps:  Chaos Control, which is a GTD Task List that includes defining your goals. In my system, I include steps toward projects in my to-do lists and keep lists of goals and projects in Google Drive. Some possibilities use a stick rather than a carrot as incentive.

Share-Give to causes you believe in by volunteering or financially. Perform random acts of kindness. (time: about 2 minutes)

Uplift-yourself with positive music and thoughts, and others with compliments and kind words. Benefits of music infographic.

Relate-Spend time with people you care about, do nice things for them, interact with others.

Increase FlowUse the talents that cause you to lose track of time.

Notice-Look up, be aware and mindful, pay attention, smell the roses, enjoy tastes, savor and appreciate life, etc. Plan activities and anticipate them, remember good times. Benefits of mindfulness and appreciation. How to: 10 Steps to Savoring at Greater Good.

Gratitude-start the day with appreciation, and end it by thinking of a few things you’re thankful for. In between, thank those you are grateful for. (time: a few minutes) Here are the benefits of Gratitude.

Time to cultivate these happy habits

HappinessAddsUp

(with thanks to http://mytherapypage.wordpress.com/2012/07/25/5-happy-habits-an-hour-a-day/)

Happiness Habits add up to about an hour a day

See also Benefits of 11 Happiness Habits in Infographics

Links to more apps:

Have you tried apps for happiness and personal development that you like? Let us know at the Daily PlanIt Facebook page!

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Happiness Based on Science and Positive Psychology

Can we increase our happiness quotient? Research in the science of Positive Psychology has identified factors that influence our happiness. See the amazing Benefits of 11 Happiness Habits in Infographics.  Sonja Lyubomirsky, a leader in the field of Positive Psychology describes some of her discoveries in the following video.

Martin Seligman pioneered Positive Psychology, and is the author of “Authentic Happiness” and other books. Authentic Happiness at the University of Pennsylvania uses the PERMA framework:

  • Positive Emotions
  • Engagement (Flow, using your talents)
  • Positive Relationships
  • Meaning (being involved in a cause you believe in)
  • Accomplishment

The Happify app uses a S.T.A.G.E. framework to build five key happiness skills. However, it is currently only available in iOS, and there is a subscription price. I’m an Android gal and look for free tools whenever possible!

10 Keys to Happier Living at Action for Happiness:

  1. Giving
  2. Relating
  3. Exercising
  4. Appreciating
  5. Trying out
  6. Direction
  7. Resilience
  8. Emotion
  9. Acceptance
  10. Meaning

Daily PlanIt Resources

Taking actions in these areas more often will increase happiness. See also Apps for Happiness and Personal Development.

Learn from Happiness Experts

Learn more with a free online course available at Edx called The Science of Happiness from Berkley’s Greater Good Science Center. There are also many practices at the Greater Good in Action.

Magazines & News:

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Make Good Habits Easy, and Bad Habits Hard

A written habit plan = a lot more success!

Download the Habit Worksheet (pdf)

A written plan for implementing a habit can increase the likelihood of forming it by 2 to almost 3 times, according to articles at Huffington PostAsian Efficiency. We are more likely to take small steps down a path that is clear.

1. SMART Habits are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time based.

2. Small steps: outline the steps that need to be taken. B J Fogg advocates baby steps in his book and TED talk. (links at the end of the post) He also has created a helpful tool called the Behavior Wizard.

3. Motivation: focus on the benefits. The benefit of a goal must exceed the resources required to obtain it. – read more at my post on The Economy of Goals. Employ the strategies to overcome procrastination at Tip the Scales To Master Motivation: Visual Strategies to Overcome Procrastination.

4. Add Incentives: Incentives can be positive (like rewards) or negative. Behavioral economics shows how things like accountability and social sharing can shape behavior. Watch the Dan Ariely TED Talk on Self Control to learn about incentives, and more about behavioral economics at Can You be nudged into saving money? from pbs.org.

5. Address Obstacles: if possible, remove temptations to fail, or have a plan for dealing with them. Make good habits easy, and bad habits hard. To increase a positive habit, remove obstacles. Shawn Achors’ 20 second rule says that lowering the barriers to change by even 20 seconds dramatically increases chances of success. To increase a positive habit, make it easier. See the interview with Shawn Achor, New Harvard Research Reveals a Fun Way to Be More Successful at Barking Up the Wrong Tree. If you want to exercise first thing in the morning, set out everything you need. To decrease a negative habit, add obstacles. Google decreased the amount of M & Ms employees were eating, simply by making it slightly more difficult. If you want to watch less television, remove the batteries from the television remote.

6. Resources: Review your available resources and obtain any tools needed.

7. Reminders: Remind yourself with a timer or automated reminders. Many habit tracker apps are available for smartphones and tablets that can help. I like the Loop Habit Tracker for Android, Strides may be a good one for ios. James Clear (author of Atomic Habits) recently released Atom. The Blip Blip Android app is a gentle hourly reminder, and reminders can be set in Google Keep notes.

8. Timing: decide when will it be done and link triggers to daily routines. Trigger a new habit by connecting it with other routine activities according to the desired time or frequency. Morning meditation after breakfast is an example of a trigger. A more frequent habit can connect with something you do more often, like taking a deep breath each time you take a drink of water. Read more about habit stacking from James Clear. Since willpower is a limited resource, tackle a new habit early in the day before it is depleted. Exercise earlier in the day provides feel-good benefits throughout the entire day.

9. Track data: How long it takes to establish a habit likely will vary depending on how difficult it is. One study showed on average, it took 66 days to form a new habit. Jerry Seinfeld’s Don’t Break the Chain Strategy is one well-known method for creating a habit. Each day that you do the task you have set for yourself, simply mark a calendar each day with a big red x. Then keep it going and don’t break the chain. Read more about Jerry Seinfeld’s Don’t Break the Chain Strategy from Entrepreneur magazine and a habit tracker guide from James Clear.

10. Review the results for feedback on how you are doing.

The words “resolution,” “habit,” and “goal” are sometimes used interchangeably, but there are differences. An understanding of what habits are is helpful before beginning to plan for behavior change.

Goals are an end toward which effort is directed. They add value in a life area, and they have a clear end-point.

Resolutions are a declaration of our firm decision to do or not to do something. A typical resolution is not very SMART.

Habits are acquired behavior patterns that are regularly followed (for good or ill.) They may be something you want to start (positive) or stop (negative). While creating or changing a habit can be a goal, they are something we want to continue indefinitely, so habits have no clear end point. Have a sustainable plan for a lower intensity after a habit has become well established, and move on to other things.

MORE PRINTABLE HABIT TRACKERS

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3 Steps of Habit Change

The Power of Habits” by Charles Duhigg, TED talk The Power of Habit. The author shares a flowchart at his website that outlines the 3 steps of habit change: Pick the cue, choose a reward, execute the routine. Learn more about the Science of Willpower at the Science of People.

Pairing and Personality Type

Gretchen Rubin, author of “Better Than Before,” describes how personality type can effect our approach to changing habits in Breaking Bad Habits from Parade Magazine. Take her quiz here. Pairing is a strategy that couples two activities, one that you need or want to do and one that you don’t particularly want to do.

See also: How to Build Good Habits at Sparring Mind, Habit Stacking from Farnam Street, 6 Best goal-tracking apps that will kick your butt from Today.com

Use visual strategies to overcome procrastination and get motivated. Learn more at the Science of Goals Infographic and What’s the Motivation? from the Daily PlanIt

Books, TED talks, and videos

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More videos at the Habits & Motivation Youtube playlist

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Change Your Mindset

A mindset is a set of beliefs that influences how we navigate the world. There are several helpful mindsets that you can adopt. A growth mindset is one that is well known, and more are listed below:

  • Growth Mindset – believe in ability to learn and grow
  • Remarkable (Excellence) – focus on strengths and improvement
  • Action oriented – employ high agency to influence life
  • Creative Mindset – make art and find imaginative solutions
  • Experimental – try new things
  • Determined (Grit) – persist through tough times and tasks

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Mindset

In “Mindset” by Carol Dweck, and her TED Talk The power of believing that you can improve, she describes her research on two mindsets. The fixed mindset is based on the belief that intelligence and other traits are unchanging: either you have them or you don’t. The growth mindset is based on the belief that intelligence and other traits can be developed with effort. The great thing about this book is that simply being aware of the two mindsets and the results of holding them helps us to reframe our thinking. People with the fixed mindset avoid challenges, which could result in failure and reveal a lower level of desirable qualities. People with a growth mindset do not fear failure, as they view it as an opportunity for learning.

A growth mindset does not say we can be anything we want with enough time and hard work, but that the hand you are dealt is just the starting point for development. We do encounter limitations, and some people may have more natural talent in various areas that makes it easier for them to develop in those areas. However, most people who at excel at something put in a lot of time and work to get where they are.

MASTERING a growth mindset

Mistakes are learning
Accept feedback
Skills can be learned
Time and effort are required for learning
Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth
Realize that uncertainty comes with challenges
Include inspiration from the success of others
Never give up: be determined to persevere
Get growing!

Mindset Resources

Remarkable or Excellence Mindset – Videos at Big Think: Will Guidara on Become excellent, be unreasonable, and another on How to Build a Success Mindset

Action oriented, high agency Mindset – George Mack High Agency in 30 minutes, a Proactive Mindset at becomingbetter.org, see Develop Agency

Creative Mindset – “The Creative Mindset” by Jeff and Staney Degraff, see the Creative Pathway at Engaging Creativity and Get Creative

Experimental Mindset – “Tiny Experiments” by Anne-Laure Le Cunff, see An Experimental Mindset

Determined or Grit Mindset – “Grit” by Angela Duckworth, see The Wimpy Person’s Guide to Grit

See also 6 Rs of Resilience and Flying Into the Learning Zone. Find more TED talks by authors at TED talk book discussion

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10 Books That Have Stayed With Me (and why)

Recently I was tagged in Facebook to list 10 books that had an impact on me. After I made my list, I read somewhere that it becomes more interesting when you describe WHY certain books stick with you.  I included some from various stages of my life, but all of them either made me feel strongly about something, took me into a different world, or I learned something life-changing.

It was really hard to limit to 10, but here are the ones I chose:

  1. “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz (because these are my guiding principles. I own all his books, and there are many markers sticking out of all of them.)
  2. “Pride & Prejudice” by Jane Austen (because of Austen’s amazing insight into people, and the way she threads wit into the words as she describes a life of gentility that sadly no longer exists. I picked up a copy at a garage sale when I was in high school and was hooked. This one has been re-read countless times.)
  3. “Rich Dad, Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki (because he explains the importance or thinking like an entrepreneur)
  4. “All About Love” by Bell Hooks (because she explains about actions that are loving, and those that are not)
  5. “The Highly Effective Detective” by Richard Yancey (because it was much deeper than I originally thought, and I found it very touching)
  6. “Veritas” by William Lashner (because it was a great story. I love his acerbic style too.)
  7. “Ragtime” by E. L. Doctorow (because I admire this intriguing style as different plots are inter-twined)
  8. “Little Big Man” by Thomas Berger (because I was drawn into another world. This one became quite overdue in my locker in high school)
  9. “The Moon is a Harsh Mistress” by Robert Heinlein (one of my first forays into science fiction. again, a journey to another world: one where a computer can become a character you care deeply about)
  10. “Horton Hears a Who” by Dr. Seuss (because I learned about loyalty)

That’s the power of why!

An analysis of the 100 books that Facebook users love is pretty interesting too.

 

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