Have you had your wake up call today? Sometimes we get wake up calls when major life events happen to us. Sometimes little things conspire happen to make us become aware of what’s really the truth. Maybe it’s something we read, something we see, something we hear. Be alert. Listen. Do you see it? Do you hear it? What’s it telling you?
When life slows down or maybe throws some difficult things your way, of course there’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself. But the fact is life includes pain, which is part of the risk of being fully alive.
I’m always looking for those shortcuts to save time and have that comfortable life I thought I wanted. I’ve learned: There is such a thing as too much time and not enough to do. If it’s something that takes too much effort I haven’t tackled it. Maybe it’s time now to stretch a little bit more.
Reality check…Ring, ring: craigharper.net
Then you start looking around for meaningful activities…something useful to do with your life. But how can little old me make the world a better place? In my obituary, they might say “She sure did read a lot of good books and watched some great tv and movies.” Oh, boy. Is my snoring waking you up? Not likely.
Ring, ring:
Ring, ring: I haven’t seen “The Secret” yet, but did see it discussed on Oprah. I’m not completely sure what I think of the Law of Attraction, which is probably why it hasn’t worked too well for me. I’ve read before about the connection between our thoughts, feelings, and actions…but this is a different way of thinking about the connection, where a powerful energy is generated by all three working together.
Ring, ring: The song “Wise Up” sung by Aimee Mann from the Magnolia soundtrack (also Jerry Maguire) says…it’s not going to stop til you wise up. Are you unhappy? Why?
Ring, ring. Are you going to answer the call?
Notes on the book “Is Your Genius at Work?” by Dick Richards.
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The author provides 32 exercises to assist in identifying your genius. The primary method is to give it a name that contains one gerund (a verb that ends with the suffix ing) and one noun. Some examples: Digging Deeper, Taking Care…the possibilities are many. You can make guesses as to what it might be, try it on and keep changing it until it feels right.
4 Key Questions:
I’m still thinking about mine! This is the most helpful book I’ve ever come across to grapple with this question.
Here’s a free tool with word lists to inspire ideas for Finding Genius I created.
How to Get Started with Getting Things Done on BNET. Lots of other neat stuff here too.
Ageless Learner has a variety of interesting assessments and articles, including a learning culture audit.
Notes from the book “Are You Ready to Succeed?” by Srikumar S Rao:
Happiness is not something you “get”-it is what you are.
Our perceptions shape our reality. Do you choose a negative reality?
Become aware of mental chatter, and shift from judgment to awareness to cultivate growth. Don’t feed your mind junk. The dog you feed will grow stronger.
Law of Increase: whatever you are truly grateful for and appreciate will increase in your life. When you change, the universe changes. Visualize what you want and combine doing with being. Recognize and surrender expectations about outcomes. We control actions but not outcomes. Accept outcomes that may be different than we expected without judgment. We think of freedom to…speak, practice the religion we choose. The greatest freedom is freedom from…the belief that something outside of us is the source of happiness.
Passion with detachment. Follow your path motivated to bring about a better outcome, accepting that we can take actions, but not the results are not in our control. Detach from emotional involvement in a particular result.
Set down the burdens of guilt and blame.
Law of Self-Interest: everybody always acts in their personal self-interest. Even our good intentions to help others are motivated by a need to feel good about ourselves. We do the best we can with where we are.
Change to a mental model of a benevolent universe that provides for us in ways we do not understand. You may be on a different path to get where you need to be.
Reconciling tragedy and suffering. Being human means we make mistakes. Being alive means tragedies happen, and we can learn and become stronger. We can gain strength to transcend the fire by connecting with the universe/higher power. We are responsible to do what we can to lessen suffering consciously.
The book contains many exercises to increase awareness.
Volunteering connects us with others and with a sense of purpose. Finding a meaningful cause we believe in helps to clarify our vision. It can be very satisfying to volunteer to help others with our strengths and talents. See more benefits of volunteering at helpguide.org. Find volunteer opportunities that match your Myers-Briggs Personality Type at Truity and Authory.
Download a printable Volunteer Bookmark pdf to locate how you might use your interests and skills for the needs of an organization for a cause that is meaningful to you.
Look for a social issue that you feel is most important to improve. What problems do you most want to change? What populations do you most want to help? What organizations serve those populations? What actions can you take to help? How can you contribute your talents and skills?
A to Z of problems or causes, actions, populations & places
A Abuse, addiction, alcoholism, animals, art
B Blood drives, book sales, building homes
C Computer literacy, climate change, conservation, community building
D Drug abuse, domestic violence, disabled, deliver meals, drive patients
E Education, emergency help, environment, events
F Financial literacy, fundraising, foster children, food pantry
G Garden-community, global warming, gun control
H Homeless, housing, hunger, health, hospitals, historical society
I Identity, illiteracy, immigration, inequality, isolation
J Justice
K Kids
L Loneliness, legal assistance, libraries
M Medical assistance, mental health, minimum wage, meals, mentoring, museums
N Nature
O Overpopulation
P Poverty, pollution, politics
Q Quiz – try a quiz to find a good volunteer match
R Reduce, reuse, recycle
S Suicide, seniors, shelters
T Teen pregnancy, transportation, tutoring
U Unemployment
V Violence-gang, veterans
W War, wildlife
X X-tra care
Y Youth
Z Zero waste–reduce carbon footprint
There are many opportunities available, many more than the partial list above which is intended to inspire thinking. They will vary depending on your community, so explore the possibilities!
Almost every organization has a need for financial support and fundraising. Maybe they need help maintaining a webpage, writing a newsletter, or help with landscaping. There may be people who need transportation to doctor’s appointments. You could spend time at a nursing home reading to someone or playing a game they enjoy. You could join a political campaign, or work in a hospital gift store.
Once you identify an organization you would like to volunteer for, contact them to ask what they need and listen to the answer. Offer ideas for ways you could use your skills to help. Decide what kind of time commitment you would like to make, then follow through.
GOAL STATEMENT
I will help [which group or organization] the arts council [when] every Saturday [how much] for an hour a week by [doing what] staffing the gift shop.
Unwrap Your Gifts | 12 Ways to Give | Discover Your Talents at the Daily PlanIt Sticky Wiki | Volunteermatch.org | Networkforgood.org | TED talk: Mark Bezos A Life lesson from a volunteer fireman
This is one of the weekly activities for a Year of Personal Development.
Via Troy Worman at Orbit Now! – Persistence or Re-Invention: 10 great tips to re-evaluate your goals at The Ultimate Corporate Entreprenuer – “10 ways to explore your direction”

A Tutorial for Increasing Productivity

The System
Possibilities:

The Focus
• Adjust direction by embracing values
• Clarify what is important – gain direction with a value statement that pinpoints what you do and why (the power tool for purpose). It includes how you add value based on what your values are.
• Target GREAT priority tasks to say YES to:
Four Fantastic Tools for Focus

The Plan
Use your system to:

The Routine
Get Organized
Goals and Productivity are like peanut butter and jelly. To spend your time where it most matters to you, begin by setting goals that align with your value statement or Unique Selling Proposition. Learn how to set goals and achieve them with this free tutorial. Learn more with the Daily PlanIt eBook “Get Goaling”
“Efficiency is doing the job right. Effectiveness is doing the right job.”-Peter Drucker
Tools for Productivity (hint: see Free Tools)
Daily
Weekly
Learn about the study of productivity, with videos and courses
Master Productivity: Productivity Levels (pdf based on posts at The 2Time Mgt Blog)
MORE RESOURCES
A To Do list is a basic tool to be more productive and an important part of any system for task management. Some people like to keep an electonic list or use a to-do app, while others prefer a written list. Whatever you choose, creating an effective To Do list is a part of daily planning that will help you combat procrastination and get motivated to get the important stuff done.
Has your To Do list gotten out of control? When you list everything you need to remember and get done, the result can be overwhelmingly long.
The To-do Today list is best kept simple.
Super Simple ways to pick priorities:
Important tasks can be routine things, like a report that is due today. Sometimes there are unpleasant frogs or DAM CRAP that must be dealt with. But don’t let the less urgent Very Important Pursuits that are Active, Inspiring, and Meaningful Solutions get lost in all the distractions that compete for attention.
With your to do list at hand, begin the day by focusing first on the top priority task. Once that is completed, move on to the next. If time is available, add more tasks from your weekly plan, repeating tasks, work goals, and action steps for goals and projects.
When you keep your To-do Today list simple, you need somewhere else to keep all the OTHER stuff you need to do. That’s why we need more than one to-do list for The Daily PlanIt Keep It Super Simple (K.I.S.S.) System. Decide how you will capture these items in other lists. These may be kept in a To-do app, or a list in Google Drive or Evernote. I have come to really appreciate the abilities of Google Keep for lists and reminders. Or if you prefer paper, you may want to keep them in a planner or notebook.
Beyond the To-Do Today List Options:
Incoming Tasks
During the day, be prepared to capture tasks that arrive in various ways: via email, meetings, conversation, phone messages, etc. Recognize and add incoming tasks into your system, and delete the ones you accomplish.
De-clutter your To-do lists
Are your To-do lists cluttered with repeating tasks and daily routine activities? Few time management systems have a good way to deal with these. Here’s how to de-clutter your To-do lists.
Repeating (or recurring) tasks
We all have repeating tasks for home and work. For home, there are maintenance tasks that are necessary to keep life running smoothly and errands like getting gas or going to the bank. For work, there are often job duties that are done on a regular basis. You can keep a separate list of repeating tasks in a To-do app so they don’t have to be re-entered each time they need to be done. Just assign it to a date within your To Do list and it’s there. Once completed, simply send it back to the repeating task list. Even though I like having a list of repeating tasks, I don’t use the recurring feature in to-do apps, because some of these tasks are needed on an irregular basis. If it’s something I will likely forget without a reminder like changing the oil in the car that I want to remember in a few months, I schedule it in my calendar.
Daily routine activities
I don’t like the things I do as part of my regular daily routine to constantly show up in my tasks or calendar. I prefer to keep them as a separate list in Google Drive.
To-Do Apps: There are many options available for to-do apps. See Apps for Productivity and learn about the Daily PlanIt K.I.S.S. System. Google Tasks is a part of Google Calendar that has become a very useful tool.
For People Who Prefer Paper
Daily PlanIt free printable forms

From Others: The To-do List from Samplewords is a neat pdf you can type your own information in. Find more at the Free Tools page and at the Productivity Tools Pinterest board.
You can manage your tasks with a To-Do Today List and other to-do lists you like. To-do lists are a big part of daily planning. The next step is to actually get them done! Learn more at the Daily PlanIt Time Management 101 Tutorial. You might also like Planning is Thinking, a Planner Checklist, a weekly review and a Weekly Plan.
Further Reading: Craig Jarrow, the timemanagementninja, calls it a TODAY list and shows 10 Things Wrong With Your To-Do List, Back to Basics: How to Simplify Your To-Do List and Make it Useful Again from Lifehacker, No More Bloated To-Do Lists! at Instigator Blog, Inc Article The Surprising Secret to Time Management, Do Your Most Important Task First? at 99u & List of Ways to Ruin a List at Brazen Careerist. Watch Creating a To-Do List that Really Works video from Michael Linenberger. See also Time Management at Wikipedia